Life's Love Affair

I don’t know about you but I’m a hopeless romantic so I look for any option to add a little bit of love, a little bit of excitement to my life-  as a single pringle. So when I discovered the 2-2-2 rule for relationship, I immediately thought of how I can make this a rule to be a part of my life.

What is 2-2-2 Rule?

The 2-2-2 is a Rule that suggests couple go

• On dates every 2 weeks
• One weekend away every 2 month
• One week long vacations every 2 years

This rule is crafted to help couples keep the spark alive and this rule can be adopted by we singles who want to date with clarity and intentionality or just want to put more spice in your life.

How can Singles use the 2-2-2 method

Every 2 weeks – Romanticize your life

Planning a solo trip every two weeks, making time to Nourish Your soul but spark peace and joy in your life.

Some ideas for this are

• Solo brunch at a cafe
• A walk with your favourite playlist or podcast
• Creative class – painting, dance
• A spa session
• A stay cation at a hotel

Every 2 months – Reflect and reset

Life moves fast, so it’s important to slow down and check-in every once in a while on your journey. Reflection brings clarity and keeps you grounded and aligned with your purpose

Some ideas for this are

• Host a mini retreat
• Journal your thoughts and what you’re learning about yourself

Every 2 years – Reinvent and Realign

It’s very important to take stock of how far you’ve come and where you’re going. As people we evolve, our desires change and it’s important we are in the know so we live intentionally and not on a hamster wheel.

Why the 2-2-2 method works well

The 2-2-2 method works well for anyone not just for singles because it

• Prevents burnout – There’s no pressure to constantly date or be productive
• It builds self-worth, you learn to become your best friend and safe space
• It helps you to stop rushing and start enjoying your life
• It increases confidence, you know what you like, what you want and why.

The 2-2-2 rule for singles isn’t about waiting for love it’s about enjoying your Singleness and choosing yourself.

Before you go

What are your thoughts on The 2-2-2 method and how have you used it in your life.